A few years ago, I found out some shocking things about a very close family member that made it clear to me that I was going to have to end the relationship. These were things that were so extreme that I simply had no interest in any kind of further engagement. At the time, I was in therapy and struggling to make the decision as to whether or not I should write a letter to explain to this person why I was cutting contact. So, I did what I always do and I looked it up online t